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WOMEN’S MARCH: 21st JAN 2017

Worldwide, more than 670 “sister” marches took place. According to the organizers, more than two million people participated in USA alone. The Women’s March on 21st January 2017 brought together people from all parts of the world, in every corner of the civilized world, each individual taking to the streets to protest the right to healthcare, the right to practice religion without fear, the right to live life without constantly being under the government’s microscope… but most of all, it was an all-out rejection of the stance of President Trump and his administration on several issues, from climate change, to the right to choose whether or not to have an abortion.

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ONE STEP AT A TIME

The Domestic Diaries Series Episode 2

The world may not instantly jump up and snatch you away from all your problems; but speaking out against battery and other forms of abuse is always the first step towards healing. Accept it. Confront it. Take action against it. You can change your life one step at a time.

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I’M A VICTIM OF ASSAULT. AND I’M A MAN.

“Don’t be shy like a new bride”, she said while she pushed me on her couch and tried to force herself on me. “Can I lose my virginity to you?” I fought her off, pushed her away and barely managed to walk out of her apartment. I wasn’t sure what had happened there. Nor did I know what to call it. All I knew is that she tried to do what I had never thought a Pakistani girl would.

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AN OPEN LETTER TO DESI FAMILIES

For starters, desi women need to understand something: If you are still connected to your son via an imaginary umbilical cord, do not get him married. If you allow them to be free and live their life without hindering it in any way now, they will be ever grateful and take proper care of you when you are old and frail and no longer able to even go to the toilet without assistance. Kindness begets kindness; cruelty begets even more cruelty. Remember that.

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POLICEMAN SLAPS FEMALE REPORTER: OPINION

The media needs to stop playing the victim. The journalist Saima Kanwal follows him twice in the footage recorded, and each time this man tries to avoid her and the camera but she continues to shove the mic in his face demanding him to respond before finally walking up to him and grabbing his collar. What did she expect? No journalist has the right to treat a human being like trash simply for the sake of TRPs.

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TO THE ONE WHO DESTROYED MY SELF-ESTEEM: I THANK YOU

I was made to feel like a “whore” because I was too extroverted, too loud, too out there making friends with everybody at university; and that is not how girls from good backgrounds and respectable households behave if they wish to be married to good, respectable men. Guilt was the driving force of our relationship; it bogged me down and completely took over my every move and thought.

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“MoHim”: BREAKING TABOOS ONE MYTH AT A TIME

A Pakistani entrepreneur recently launched an app on iOS, which aims to break the general stereotypes and stigma around menstruation in third world countries. Called MoHim, which is an acronym for Menstrual Health Management and also means “effort” in Urdu, this particular game debunks general myths about menstruation.

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MY AUNT WAS RAPED TO BECOME THE PERFECT WIFE

The Domestic Diaries Series: Episode 1

“Don’t let him take me back,” she begged, tears streaming down her face as she wildly looked around the room like a caged animal.
My khala turned to Jugnu’s son Mohammad and said, “such a strong boy! You are a strong boy, aren’t you? You’ll take care of your mother yes?” And the little four-year-old got up huffing and walked over to the bed, before promising to do just that; with his wide eyes glued to his hysterical mother as she continued to weep her heart out.

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